Long distant Relationships

I am all for long distant relationships. People like to "tease" and say that my man is probably cheating on me as we speak, but honestly I know for sure he is not. If a girl or guy came to me asking if they think it is a good idea to go into a long distant relationship I would say yes. But when going into something like that you really have to consider if you trust your partner and if your partner trust you. Along with trust you need to have some kind of respect for each other in order to make it work. I would also recommend a plan. If you are in a relationship that isn't going any where, why waste your time? I mean, I know its not like you will get married right now and what not, but if you have no plans beyond the distance then it will most likely not work. When in a relationship you can't just try to "wing it" because you will end up lonely. And as much as people don't want to admit, no one wants to end up lonely and unloved. There has to be some kind of mutual rules that you and your partner can both agree on also. Whether it be as little as not giving your number out to the opposite sex (or same depending on your preference). Who ever said long distant relationships don't work probably didn't have some kind of mutual respect between partners, mutual trust, or no plan afterwards. Our greatest leader was in a long distant relationship with his wife for two-years. If you don't know who I'm talking about I am talking about Barack Obama and his wife Michelle Obama. They had respect, trust and a plan. Look at them now. I'm just saying, consider what you are going into and who it is with. And if it seems right, go for it.
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